Maybe, if you are fat and see this caption, the first thing that may come to your mind is: What kind of foolish question is this? However, if you really think about again, wouldn't you rather know the opinion of different people out there and learn to live with it rather than pretend like "who cares"?
Honestly, you should care and know what to take seriously and what to discard.
For me, I believe the most important thing is to love yourself enough to do for yourself what wil make you comfortable in yourself and for yourself. I have discovered that people around us will get comfortable with us to the degree that we are comfortable with ourselves.
So the secret is: Get comfortable with your Creator (whose your are) and you will find that you are daily getting comfortable with who, what, why, where you are in your life on the way to all you are becoming! And, the aura on you will draw builders to you rather than destroyers.
Now, get some popcorn, sit back and read some of the opinions of people that are not fat - about getting married to people who are fat.
John:
No, it shows lack of self discipline. No matter how comfortable a lady is, she needs to watch her weight till she starts giving birth.
Shade:
Why not? If there's love, shape or size doesn't have to be an excuse at all. What if that person add weight him/herself, will the partner leave him or her? I can be married to anybody. Happiness and peace of mind count and not size of body
Kay:
Yes, if I really love the person and I am sure it is the will of God for me. Adding so much wight or not, I will marry him; then, assist him to continue to stay health.
Gbemisola:
I can't. They sweat excessively, snore annoyingly, they also get tired easily.
Ijeoma:
No, not too fat. Too much weight to manage on bed (my opinion). Oh my God! He is going to look like my father when together. However, God's will be done.
Shola:
Obviously No. Shape to me means a lot. I can marry a person that is shapely (hips et al)
TJ:
It all depends, If my spec is someone on the heavy side, then yes. However, If I met her and started dating her while (she was) slender, then I think, it's so wrong to leave her becuase she became heavy. I, for one, would remain with her irrespective of her new found size. Love should conquer size.
Gbenga:
Yes, I can marry a fat person because, they seem more caring and committed to a relationship; the reason being that most of them have inferiority complex and low self esteem. They appreciate people that accept them. I dated someone like that in school. She was very committed so I wouldn't mind marrying such.
Kehinde:
No! I can't get married to a person that has put on so much weight because of future health challenges related to excess body fat. A person who is over-weight is for sure going to suffer from health problems like diabetes, hypertension, arthritis, coronary heart disease, etc. due to excess body fat. To avoid such challenge, it's better I don't get involved with such a person.
Lamide:
My candid opinion is this: I would not like to marry someone that has put on so much weight. Most of them get too comfortable in their own skin and, most times, they don't like working on it. Instead, they start their own quote - 'this is me, accept me!' But, if the person is willing to work on it, I am ready to go all the way. Unfortunately, they spend more time battling with low self esteem rather than losing weight.
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